War zone [PHOTOS]

Our first night was tough. Elijah required three feeds. Koong-Koong helped Mommy with it. Daddy was knocked out from all that running around in the day and stress from trying to cup-feed Elijah.

Parenting. It's a frightening experience. We want to do what's right for our baby. The scary part is we often don't know if we are doing it the right way. When Daddy was trying to cup-feed Elijah, Elijah was motionless. Daddy didn't know if Elijah was asleep or had been choked.

At times, we were disorganised and disheveled. Too many of us trying to do the same thing. We were not playing to our strengths. We got up this morning and realised we should focus on our respective "competitive advantages." So, Mommy and KK will focus on feeding, bathing and caring. Por-Por will focus on cooking and washing. Daddy will take care of the administration and running around.

After a tough night, today was a good day. Elijah consistently latched on well. Mommy managed to breastfeed Elijah for long stretches - we had sessions lasting 30 mins, 40 mins and even an hour.

First bath at home
It took three of us. KK bathed Elijah.
Daddy read out the instructions from the ParentCraft book.
Mommy assisted by watching and commenting.

Looking pleased after a bath
KK applying anti-rash cream.

Earning his spurs
A proud KK, after earning his "Bathing Baby" badge.

Loving it
Babies love being burped. The look on Elijah says it all.

Baby's first tan
Because of jaundice, we were advised to
place Elijah near the window for a while each day.
[Parents-to-be, please note: Do not expose baby to direct sunlight.]

A fairy came by
Godma Jacqueline sneaking up on her godson.

Recovering well
Mommy indulging in a favourite past time.
With help from KK and PP,
Mommy's coping well with motherhood and cesarian wound.

Contentment
After a marathon of breastfeeding,
Elijah's alert and likes to check out his surroundings.